Unable to update to Multiview Release

I have been quite angry that At&t is so slow to update Multiview (not sure why they don't let Samsung send out updates!) Then I heard a news report that it will be available.  I tried to update via Kies - of course AT&T disabled that - now OTA update says that it's not available.  Tried again today and it says that I can't even check for 119 hours.  I just can't believe how invasive AT&T is in MY device! Just let me upgrade it, what is the big deal?  Why tell me 119 hours before I'm allowed to check again?

I have avoided rooting the phone, but with all these headaches, bloatware, and poorly written applications it's hard to be a good citizen. I can't figure out if iti is arrogance or incompetence.  Why can't you just accept that you are a just a voice/data carrier, and my smartphone is like my PC.  

Please help me to update to the feature you advertised when I bought the phone over a month ago!